Meant-to-Be Coach

LIFE, and PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT COACHING with RUTH KUSTOFF

Meant-to-Be Coach

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Practice Makes Perfect

But checking our habits and patterns helps

With practice, comes perfect – or so we’ve been told. When we see greatness in Olympic athletes or hear perfection in a musical piece, we know and accept the hours of practice and dedication it takes to reach this. Within these practice hours are countless moments of review and evaluation to ensure the finished product – the high jump or violin concerto is as good as it can be.

When we set out on own pursuits, do we incorporate the same self-checks? Are we aware of what we’re doing? Do we listen to an outside voice – a coach or mentor to do something differently than we are. In many cases, we continue to do what we’ve always done because that’s what’s we’re comfortable with. We don’t process or apply behavior changes we need to make.

When we learn, first we need to gain knowledge, that is, complete an act of reading, or listening or doing that gives us new information. Then we need to understand this new information. This is followed by applying the new knowledge. Some of you may be familiar with Bloom’s Taxonomy. It outlines six steps in learning that include:

  • Knowledge – remembering  
  • Comprehension – Understanding
  • Application – Using
  • Analysis – Breaking Down
  • Synthesis – Putting it together
  • Evaluation – Judging and valuing

The learning process is an ongoing, continuous cycle as these six steps clearly show. But within each step there must be a personal awakening and awareness so repetition of bad habits or patterns can be broken.
Learning is like running a long race – without the physical aspect. In a race, you need to stay focused and be aware of what you’re doing. Underneath the concentration of listening to your body, there is an undercurrent that is continually managing what you’re doing. It goes like this: focus on the goal, check your body – is it relaxed, aligned, how is my breathing. In physical pursuits we need to see what we’re doing, acknowledge how we’re doing and possibly adjust and then, let the thoughts go. Don’t get into the head, just keep moving.
With learning, we need to do the same. We need to train our thoughts: read, focus, comprehend, process, acknowledge it and let it go. This means watching out for the same places where we’ve tripped before when trying to learn something. Are we reading too fast, jumping ahead to apply something before really understanding it, making a quick judgment?

The first step in learning is gaining knowledge through activity and then stepping back to consider how it may relate to what we’re doing. These actions, in most cases, work seamlessly and we can apply new knowledge to solve a challenge or be creative to innovate something new.
When you’re on a new path or trying to adjust what you’ve been doing, take a moment to reflect on how you’re approaching it. Consider what might need to be different and what might change. Remember to check each step and ask yourself reflective questions. This is sure to support your efforts to reach the goal or change you want.